Is It Ever Too Late For Couples Counselling?

Joy Ball, Couples and Relationship Counsellor on the Mornington Peninsula

By the time some couples walk into my counselling room, they have been unhappy for a long time. They may have spent months or even years having the same arguments, living with very little emotional or physical connection, carrying unresolved hurt or slowly becoming more like housemates than partners. Often, one of the first things […]

How To Choose The Right Couples Counsellor

Warm and welcoming counselling room for Couples Counselling

Deciding to see a couples counsellor is often something people think about for quite some time before they finally make an appointment. You may have reached a point where the same conversations keep going around in circles, you feel more disconnected than you used to, trust has been damaged or you simply know something between […]

How Parenting Changes Your Relationship

Parents walking together with their young child, reflecting how parenting changes your relationship

Becoming parents can be one of the biggest changes your relationship will ever experience. You can love your children deeply and still miss the relationship you had before life became centred around feeding, sleeping, school runs, appointments, work, washing and the endless list of things somebody needs to remember. Many couples don’t expect parenting to […]

Why We Repeat the Same Relationship Patterns | Couples Counselling

Couple in counselling discussing repeating relationship patterns with a relationship counsellor

Have you ever promised yourself that things would be different, only to find yourself facing some of the same feelings again? Perhaps the circumstances have changed, yet somehow you still find yourself feeling unheard, trying too hard to keep the peace, pulling away when things become difficult or wondering why you seem to end up […]

How Childhood Experiences Shape Adult Relationships

Woman reflecting on her relationships during individual relationship counselling on the Mornington Peninsula

Have you ever found yourself reacting to something your partner said or did and later wondered why it affected you so deeply? Perhaps they forgot to call, became quiet during a conversation or seemed distracted, and before you knew it, you were feeling hurt, rejected or anxious. In the moment, it can seem as though […]